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Don’t you think you’re just too pretty?! Behave yourself!

What? :D

Anonymous asked: you seem so wise and mature

I wish!… But nah - inside I’m all like:

Thanks anyway.

setyourcompass asked: I don't like AA. I think believe that alcoholics and addicts and everybody with any kind of issue need to find their own way and their own reasons to recover and I also don't agree with these "12 steps" kind of things. I mean, obviously AA works for SOME people, but I don't really agree with them. But anyway, I just liked the idea of the hostage for some reason. It made me think and then my thoughts drifted away and meanwhile I'm already at the other end of the world with my thoughts XD

I don’t like AA too. And I hate 12 fucking steps. I don’t reject that completely because - as you wrote - it obviously works for some people. Well, bless them…

I agree that everybody has to find their own reasons. But it’s always good to search for an inspiration - everywhere. 

I’m glad that it made you think - thanks for putting that “postcard from the end of the world” into my askbox! :D

setyourcompass asked: "Alcoholics and addicts don’t have relationships, they take hostages" - I like that. But it's not only alcoholics and addicts, it's people with issues in general. Or maybe it's actually true for everybody, messed up in the heaed or not. Because people start relationships because they don't want to be alone, the hostages reach an impasse. Only if one half of the relationship is more extreme than the other, the balance between two partners is disturbed it becomes more of a one-sided hostage thing

I totally agree with that.

Also - I think that relationships can be healthy only if you’re not trying to find things that you don’t have inside you in another person. You have to be “complete”. You can’t start a relationship because you’re “alone”. It’s selfish. It’s all about sharing - not about filling anybody’s emptiness!

(It’s about alcoholics and addicts because this is one of the slogans of AA.

I’m not that kind of person who accepts blankly every psychological mumbo-jumbo. But I was desperate. I typed “good reason to stay sober” in the search engine and I’ve found that. It was like an epiphany).

(via peculiaraddict)